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The Bible And Slavery

Most of us have an extremely difficult time believing that churches or Christian denominations could actually promote slavery, racism or segregation.  But they did! And this leads us to the accusation some skeptics make that the Bible promotes slavery!  So, does the Bible endorse slavery? 

δοῦλος doulos / עבד ‘ ebed

δοῦλος doulos, covers an extremely broad spectrum.

#1 Slave – This person served involuntarily.  He was considered property. 

#2 Serf was a was a laborer who was paid and housed by his master.  

#3 Servant was similar to an employee, who was paid for his services.

Hebrew and Roman Slaves

The Bible defines servitude differently than we might define it today. 

Most slaves in ancient Israel were Hebrew servants. Lev 25:39

Debtor Slaves were only supposed to work for six years. Ex 21:2–4

Few foreign slaves were bought, but they also were debtors. Ex 21:16

Slavery was abolished at the Babylonian Captivity. Jer 34:9-10

In the New Testament, Slavery was regulated by Rome. 

The church lived within the law & challenged slavery from the bottom. 

Slaves flocked to Christianity in droves because it gave them hope! 

The Old Testament on Slavery

Slave Traders received the death penalty – Ex 21:16

Return of fugitive slaves was illegal – Deut 23:15–16

Most or all “slaves” were debtors – Lev 25:39

Debtors were released after a term – Ex 21:1-3

The greatest release of slaves was the Exodus in chapter 14

God is not an enslaver; he is the one who freed the slaves!    

The New Testament on Slavery

Slave and free are considered equal – Gal 3:28

Slave traders are considered lawbreakers – 1 Tim 1:10

Slaves are encouraged to be set free – 1 Cor 7:21

Jesus preached liberty to captives – Lk 4:18-21

Christians are to stand fast in liberty – Gal 5:1

Does the Bible Endorse Slavery?

Slavery was regulated by the Bible, not endorsed.

The Bible inhibits slavery from cover to cover

OT Slaves were more like a hired servant than slave

The New Testament never tolerates slavery.

Service to Men 22

Serve sincerely because you are an example. 

The exception to obedience is if their directive violates the Word of God. 

Do the job when no one’s watching

Do the job because God is watching

Service to God 23-24

The Christian work ethic means we work for the Lord! 

When we get to heaven, we will receive an eternal reward. 

If you minimize eternal rewards, you severely underestimate their value. 

Leading Men 4:1

A leader should lead like a servant because God is watching. 

The Christian leader should be firm, but fair.   

The Christian leaders should treat people “equitably.”    

Like the servant, we are all accountable to God.  God is the ultimate master.  We are the ultimate example of servants.  We love the term servant.  Christianity elevated the term servant to a place of power!  We are servants of Christ!  This is the number one rule of leadership!  Leaders serve, and all other Christians do to!  Lord help me to be the servant that you can be pleased with! 



In 1845 The denomination of Northern Baptists ruled that men who owned slaves were no longer permitted to serve as missionaries, and slaveholding Baptists decided to form their own group in protest.  The Southern Baptist Convention was founded to safeguard the institution of slavery.  Founders of the new organization claimed that, according to the Bible, slavery was “an institution of heaven.” They pushed the idea that Black people were descended from the Biblical figure Ham, Noah’s cursed son, and that their subjugation was therefore divinely ordained. They almost called themselves the ‘Confederate Baptist Convention,’[i]

The S.B.C. has a long and painful history around race, and even though they have worked at reconciliation, their history still haunts them today.  Those of us who are west coasties or Northerners, have an extremely difficult time believing that churches or Christian denominations  could actually promote slavery, racism or segregation.  But they did!

And this leads us to the accusation which you may have heard leveled at Christians; some skeptics make the accusation that the Bible is racist, and that it promotes slavery!  So, that’s the difficult question we are going to tackle today:  Does the Bible endorse slavery. 

δοῦλος doulos / עבד ‘ ebed

The first word in verse 22 of Colossians 3 in the New King James is “bondservants.”  Other translations render this word SERVANTS, or SLAVES.  The Greek word here is δοῦλος doulos, meaning  a slave, serf, subservient, servant, or attendant.  In the Hebrew, the word for slave is עבד ‘ ebed, and it means essentially the same thing. 

These two terms, one for the Old Testament, and the other for the New Testament describe and define slavery in the Bible.  Similar words, similar concepts. 

But please know this, the word doulos covers an extremely broad spectrum, all the way from a bondman to a freeman.  All the way from involuntary servitude to voluntary labor.  Let’s look at three types of individuals who could be called doulos, or servants.

#1 Slave – This person served involuntarily.  He was bought and sold and put to forced labor.  He was considered the property of his master, and most slaves were unpaid. 

But, wait, there is a second set of servants that had a little more freedom.  For sake of understanding, I’ll call them “serfs,”  though that word is nowhere used in the Bible, it is certainly described there. 

#2 Serf was a servant.  He was  laborer who was paid a wage, and housed by his master.  But he too could be bought and sold.

#3 Servant – This word also describes a servant who was paid a wage, They got time off for the Sabbath, and sometimes had other benefits. And they might have their own place of lodging.  This group of servants was more like a modern employee, rather than a slave.

The only groups of people not defined by the word Doulos are the self employed, the employer, or the slave owner.  For those of us today who work for someone else, we are doulos.  We are paid to serve others. 

Hebrew and Roman Slaves

The Bible defines servitude differently than we might define it today.  In the Old Testament, God gave rules on how to regulate slavery.  There were basically two kinds of slaves that were held by the Hebrews. 

Most slaves in ancient Israel were Hebrew – thus by definition, they were servants.  They were not allowed to enslave fellow Hebrews.  “’If any of your fellow Israelites become poor and sell themselves to you, do not make them serve as slaves.” Leviticus 25:39

Debtor servants/slaves were only supposed to perform for a specific term, and they had to be paid for their service.  That was how they paid their debts.  All servants/slaves were only to serve a maximum of 7 years.  “When you buy a Hebrew slave, he shall serve six years, but in the seventh he shall go out a free person, without debt.”  Exodus 21:2–4

There were foreign slaves, but they were a minority, and to be clear, foreigners were also debtor slaves who chose to sell themselves to pay off debt.  Slaving was illegal.  Exodus 21:16

Slavery was abolished by the Babylonian Captivity.  Jeremiah 34:9 called for an immediate release of all Hebrew slaves, without regard to how long they had been enrolled. And more dramatically, it provided that “No one should hold another Judean in slavery…. so that they would not be enslaved again” (Jer. 34:9-10). In other words, it was the abolition of slavery

When we come to the New Testament, Slavery was not regulated by Israel, but by Rome.  The church had to live within the law.  It is very interesting and instructive that instead of leading slave revolts, Christians worked from the bottom up to free slaves.  Slaves flocked to Christianity in droves because it gave them hope of spiritual equality and an eternal status in Jesus Christ! 

The Old Testament on Slavery

Let’s quickly look at slavery in the Old Testament.  And you tell me whether you think that these verses endorse slavery or work against it!

Slave Traders received the death penalty – Ex 21:16 “He who kidnaps someone and sells him, or if he is found in his hand, shall surely be put to death.”

Return of fugitive slaves was illegal – Deut 23:15–16 “You shall not give back to his master the slave who has escaped from his master to you. 16 He may dwell with you in your midst, in the place which he chooses within one of your gates, where it seems best to him!” 

Most or all “slaves” were debtors – Lev 25:39 “if one of you becomes poor, and sells himself to you, you shall not compel him to serve as a slave.”  The slavery introduced here was never meant to be. God promises in Deuteronomy 15:4 But there will be no poor among you; for the LORD will bless you in the land that the LORD your God is giving you for an inheritance to possess— 5 if only you will strictly obey the voice of the LORD 7 “If among you, one of your brothers should become poor… you shall open your hand to him and lend him sufficient for his need, whatever it may be.

Debtors were released after a term – Ex 21:1-3 If you buy a Hebrew servant, he shall serve six years; and in the seventh he shall go out free and pay nothing.”

The greatest release of slaves was the Exodus as related in chapter 14.  God is not an enslaver, he is the one who released the slaves!  That’s one of the big stories of the Old Testament! 

The New Testament on Slavery

The New Testament not only does not endorse slavery, but the majority of references set the stage for the demise of slavery in the western world. 

Slave and free considered equal – Gal 3:28 “There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”

Slavers are considered lawbreakers – 1 Tim 1:10 knowing this: that the law is not made for a righteous person, but for the lawless and insubordinate, for the ungodly and for sinners… for murderers… 10 for fornicators, for sodomites, for kidnappers (menstealers)… and if there is any other thing that is contrary to sound doctrine

Slaves are encouraged to be set free – 1 Cor 7:21 “Were you called to Christ while a slave? Do not be concerned about it; but if you can be made free, do it!”

Jesus preached liberty to captives – Lk 4:18-21 “The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me, Because He has anointed Me To preach the gospel to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to the captives!”

Christians are to stand fast in liberty – Gal 5:1 Stand fast therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free, and do not be entangled again with a yoke of bondage.

Does the Bible Endorse Slavery?

Slavery was regulated by the Bible, not endorsed, any more than the Bible endorses polygamy.

The Bible inhibits slavery from cover to cover

OT Slaves were more like a hired servant than slave

The New Testament never tolerates slavery and its principles demand slavery’s demise.

Service to Men

So let’s get into it!  In order to be a good servant, attendant or employee you need to render your best service to those in charge because you are an example of what a Christian should be! 

Servants, obey in all things your masters according to the flesh, not with eye service, as men-pleasers, but in sincerity of heart, fearing God

The point is that you should serve sincerely! 

The Bible says to obey in all things.  It says the same thing about women submitting to their husbands, and children obeying their parents.  But there is one, often unspoken, yet understood exception to this rule.  Do it as long as it doesn’t violate either the will of God or the law of the land. 

You don’t have to be a genius to figure this out.  Children are to obey, as unto the Lord.  Wives are to submit as unto the Lord.  And lawbreaking is prohibited for Christians.  But if there is anything else your boss asks of you, if it is ethical, legal, and moral, just do it.  You don’t have to agree with him.  You don’t have to like his methods.  Perhaps there is a better, faster, smarter way to do it.  It doesn’t matter.  You can suggest it, but if you’re asked to do the job, do the job you were asked to do. 

And do the job even when no one is watching.  Not with eye service, but in sincerity.  Other people may slack off, but that person is not you.  You set the example of what It means to be a Christian worker. 

Because, after all, God is watching.  That’s what it means to fear God.  It means that you have reached the place in your life that you have an awareness of God at all times.  Since Christ is in you.  Since the Holy Spirit indwells you.  Since the Father is with you.  Do the job well.

Service to God

But that’s not all!  We don’t do a good job to make brownie points.  We don’t do a good job to just to move up the ladder.  We don’t even do a good job so we can get a raise.  We do the best job we can to in order to please Jesus. 

23 And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men, 24 knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ.

One of the characteristics of a Christian work ethic is that we expect our people to work heartily.  This literally means that your work should come from your heart!  In other words put a little bit of love into your job!  If you cook, cook with love!  If you stock shelves, stock them with love, if you work with people, love them!  If you push paper, push it with most love you can muster! 

Because we are doing it for the Lord!  That is the true Christian ethic.  I can tell if you have Christianized your job or not, if I can just find out who your real boss is!  If you do everything for Jesus, that’s what it’s all about. 

And may I say at this point that some of you envy full time Christian workers like pastors and missionaries who get to serve God all day long.  I have a news flash for you!  You also serve God full time!  No matter your job, you should do it for Jesus! 

And when you get to heaven, you will receive an eternal reward.  Now I have mentioned the topic of rewards to numerous people over the years and have often gotten a puzzling response.  “I don’t care about eternal rewards, heaven is enough for me!”

Let me tell you, if you don’t care about eternal rewards, you have severely underestimated their value.  It would be a mistake of colossal proportions to ignore eternal rewards!  It would be like working without a expecting a paycheck.  It would be like making payments on your car and never driving it.  It would be like getting married and living separate lives in separate homes.  It would be like having family, but never getting to see them!

Whatever your eternal rewards turn out to be, you want to invest in them, and that means you want to serve Jesus whole heartedly!  And look!  God is so good that he even gives eternal rewards for doing your secular job well!  Work hard for Jesus! 

Leading Men

And finally we get to the boss man.  How should you as a leader lead.  You should lead fairly, honestly, leading the best that you can, as a servant, because God is watching. 

Masters, give your bondservants what is just and fair, knowing that you also have a Master in heaven.

The Christian boss should be honest and fair!  Don’t show partiality.  Don’t play favorites.  Do right by your people!  That’s what “just” means.  It means to do right as much as you are able.  You owe it to those you serve to do your best.

You should also be firm, but fair.  This is a word that means “equitable.”  It means that you give everyone the chance they deserve, that you do your best to see that they have the information, tools and training they need to do the job. 

Why?  Because like the servant, we are accountable to God.  God is the ultimate master.  We are the ultimate example of servants.  We love the term servant.  Christianity elevated the term servant!  We are servants of Christ!  But there is one warning to both servant and master found in verse 25:

He who does wrong will be repaid for what he has done, and there is no partiality.

We are told that there will be blessing if we are good servants, and good bosses!  But there is also a penalty for the slacker, for the lazy man or woman, for the disobedient, the cruel, the harsh, and the unruly servant. 

God is the master, and we are the servant!  This is the number one rule of leadership!  Leaders serve, and all other Christians do to!  Lord help me to be the servant that you can be pleased with! 


[i] https://www.newyorker.com/news/on-religion/the-fight-for-the-heart-of-the-southern-baptist-convention#:~:text=The%20Southern%20Baptist%20Convention%20was,their%20own%20group%20in%20protest.

The surprising secrets of highly happy marriages

Every single day in June about 13,000 American couples will say “I do,” but for many of them it just doesn’t work out.  Every relationship will face tumultuous times.  Through the bad times, enquiring minds want to know, what will make my marriage work?  Today I’m going to share four simple, yet surprising truths about how to have a successful family. 

Christians who attend church have a 25-50% lower divorce rate.

Following biblical principles always makes marriage better.

What Loving Wives do to Contribute to a Happy Family 18

Godly wives submit to their husbands. 

Sweet submission is one of the incredible secrets of a happy marriage. 

Submission is showing loving support and genuine respect for the husband.

It is “a voluntary attitude of putting others first. 

Submission is the key to marital harmony. 

Everyone needs someone to cheer them on.  We need more encouragers. 

What Loving Husbands do to Contribute to a Happy Family 19

Godly husbands demonstrate the attitude of a loving servant.

A loving husband will show honor and respect to his wife. 

Self Sacrifice is at the core of our relationship with God. 

Love is about loving like Jesus loved! 

Bitterness can destroy your attitude and ruin your marriage. 

We become bitter when other people don’t meet our expectations!

God never meant for you to force other people to obey.  That’s not your job. 

What Loving Children do to Contribute to a Happy Family 20

Children who love Jesus will want to obey their parents. 

Children should learn to obey their parents in all things.

Rebellion brings chaos into a family.

Obedience brings harmony and joy into a family. 

What Loving Fathers do to Contribute to a Happy Family 21

Godly fathers encourage their children.

Is your fathering resulting in frustration or harmony?

Too much teasing becomes exasperating to children. 

Father’s discourage their children through anger and injustice. 

Fathers have an incredible, powerful influence on their children. 

Listen, this is not rocket science.  These principles are not new but they are true.  They have been around for thousands of years, and they are just as true today as when the ink dried on the page.  It’s all about your attitude and behavior.  If you want to change your family, you must change your attitude.  Don’t be selfish, be submissive!  Don’t be self centered, be considerate and loving!   Don’t demand your own way, be obedient.  Don’t be a frustration, be an encourager.  The surprising secrets are out; People who apply biblical principles are more likely to have a happy marriage. 



Every single day in June, the most popular wedding month of the year, about 13,000 American couples will say “I do,” committing to a lifelong relationship that they hope will be full of friendship, joy, and love that will carry them to their final days on this earth; except, of course, it doesn’t work out that way for some of them.[i]

I have performed nearly a hundred weddings in the last 30 or 40 years.  Some of them made it, and some of them did not.  Some of the couples that I thought would succeed, did not.  And some of the ones that I was betting against, surprisingly are still married. 

Every relationship will face tumultuous times.  Yours will.  Finances will be depleted, tragedy will strike, people will change, children will rebel, spouses will say and do damaging things, and troubles will come cascading into the family like a deluge during a winter storm in Oregon. 

Through all these things, enquiring minds want to know, what will make my marriage work?

If you have been with me, for any period of time, you have probably heard a message or two on the family.  I have preached nearly 100 messages on the family and have written a book on it called “God Strong Families.”

So you are not likely to hear much of anything new that I haven’t already said, but you are likely to hear everything true from God’s Word.  Not new, but true.  Truth this good deserves to be repeated.  And today I’m going to share four simple, yet surprising truths about how to have a successful family.  I’m going to share with you what love really looks like.

Let me just start with something new.  Do you know all those studies we’ve heard about that claim that over 50% of all marriages fail,  And that the divorce rate in the church is just as bad as the divorce rate outside the church?  It turns out there is a new book out that claims that those are just myths that have been perpetuated on the American public. 

In their book, The Good News about Marriage: Debunking Discouraging Myths about Marriage and Divorce, authors Shaunti Feldhahn and Tally Whitehead share the following: [ii]

Contrary to what is commonly suggested, the actual divorce rate has never been close to 50%.  Instead almost 75% of people are still married to their first spouse, and some of those who aren’t have experienced the death of a spouse, not divorce.  [iii]

And then there is this conclusion:  Despite what you’ve been told, the divorce rate in the church is not the same as outside the church.  In fact church attendees have a 25-50% lower divorce rate. [iv]

Now why is that?  It is because people who go to church are more likely to know the surprising secrets of a happy marriage.  It turns out that following a few essential biblical principles creates winning attitudes and behaviors in God’s people.  And as you may have heard “Attitude is everything.”  Or at least it is one of the really important things.

Your attitude is a significant predictor of your success in marriage. A positive attitude can help you overcome obstacles and develop resilience and bounce back from setbacks.  Attitude is more important than talent, more significant than your IQ, more essential then looks, athleticism, business sense, and most any other category.  Attitude is the engine that drives our responses and how we relate to other people.

So today, what I want to do is look at four important marriage truths and see how they impact our attitudes and behaviors in the most positive ways.  Let’s do a quick survey of them.

Here is what loving wives do to contribute to a happy family

Are you ready for this surprising truth?  Godly wives submit to their husbands.  Sweet submission is one of the incredible secrets of a happy marriage.  Never underestimate the power of a wife’s loving support and genuine respect for her husband.   That’s what submission is.  It is what will make your marriage one of the best in the world. 

18 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.

Just what is submission?  It comes from the Greek word is hoopo-tasso, and it is “a voluntary attitude of putting others first, of cooperating, and sharing their burdens.”  It is respect for others opinions.  It is demonstrating genuine enthusiasm and appreciation for the work that other people put in.  It is being supportive.  Submission is the cure for conflict.  It is the key to unity and harmony.  It is about being part of a team. 

Submission is the key to marital harmony.  It’s also the key to most relationships!  You don’t have to always be in the driver’s seat!  Not everybody gets to be the center forward or the quarterback.  But every team member knows that glory hogs and show offs, and selfish players destroy a team, and that every orchestra needs a second fiddle or there will be no harmony. 

This is about my attitude.  It is about being my husband’s number one cheerleader!  Everyone needs someone to cheer them on.  We already have too many critics in the world.  What we need is more encouragers. 

Ladies, you have an incredibly powerful key that brings the kind of family harmony that you have always wanted!  This is what love really looks like. 

And according to verse 18, it’s very pleasing to the Lord.  It is appropriate behavior if you are a Christian.  Want to be successful ladies?  Be your husband’s biggest cheer leader.

Here is what loving husbands do to contribute to a happy family

Godly husbands demonstrate the doting attitude of a servant in love, who just can’t do enough to show honor and respect to their wives.  Flowers, dates, gifts, honor, respect, time, conversation, active listening… Never underestimate the power of personal self sacrifice and genuine love for your wife.  That’s what love is, and it will make your marriage one of the best.

19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be bitter toward them.

Personal self Sacrifice is at the core of every person’s relationship with God.  Do you want to be spiritual?  Then take up your cross and follow Jesus.  Sacrifice your desires for God’s desires.    

It turns out that passionate, red hot, love is all about sacrifice.  Men you have at your fingertips an incredibly powerful key that can open the door to the marriage you have always wanted! 

If you want this winning attitude, you need to love like Jesus loved!  This is known as Agape love!  How much did Christ love the church?  Christ loves the church so much that he was willing to die for it.  How important is the church?  More important than anything else on earth. 

But what can destroy this attitude?  Bitterness.  Why would a guy become bitter?  When your wife doesn’t measure up, when she isn’t being submissive… beware lest you become bitter.  Husbands God never meant for you to try and force your wife to be a good submissive woman.  That’s not your job.  You may want to do it, but believe me it’s counterproductive!  The only thing it will create is bitterness.  Don’t go there.

Men, you have an incredible powerful key that can bring the kind of family happiness that you have always wanted!  This is what love really looks like. 

Here is what loving children do to contribute to a happy family

Children who love Jesus and want to please him, will also want to be good kids.  Good kids do their best to obey their parents at all times. 

20 Children, obey your parents in all things, for this is well pleasing to the Lord.

In our crazy mixed up world where stories trickle down to us of educators who tell their class:  “Now class, don’t tell your parents what I told you!”  About gender transitioning, about drag queens, about premarital sex, and other sensitive topics; God’s word has always been a trusted source of information.  And what the Bible tells children is this:  Children obey your parents in all things.

Never underestimate the power of a child who is happy to do what mom and dad say!  They will be so shocked and pleased that, they might even let you borrow the keys to the car! 

There is almost nothing I can think of that brings more chaos into a family than a rebellious child, and there is just about nothing that has the power to bring harmony and joy into a family than happy, well adjusted, obedient kids. 

They won’t be hanging off the cart at K-Mart.  They won’t be screaming in the grocery store.  They are happy to be well behaved.  Children have incredible power to bring family harmony.  You want to be pleasing to God?  Obey your parents.

Here is what loving fathers do to contribute to a happy family

Godly fathers are engaged with their children.  They spend time with them.  They love them.  They correct them.  But most of all, godly fathers encourage their children, rather than filling them with anger, bitterness or resentment.

21 Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.

Fathers are typically the teasing type.  And far too often that teasing becomes exasperating and frustrating to children.  Father’s can also discourage their children through anger, injustice, favoritism, mistreatment, not showing up when they should. 

Why aren’t mother’s included here?  Because as a general rule, Mothers mother naturally, because that is how God made them, but fathers are often tired or claim to be too busy to be the father they were meant to be.  One of the great reasons that children are growing up angry and frustrated is because father is missing. 

But Fathers have an incredible, powerful influence on their children.  Never underestimate the power of genuine encouragement of a father! 

Listen, this is not rocket science.  These principles are not new, but they are true.  They have been around for thousands of years, and they are just as true today as when  the ink dried on the page.  It’s all about your attitude and behavior.  If you want to change your family, change your attitude.

Wives, don’t be selfish, be submissive!  Husbands don’t be self centered, be considerate and loving!  Children, don’t demand your own way, be obedient.  Fathers, don’t be a frustration, be an encourager.  It’s very simple.  The surprising secrets are out;  People who apply biblical principles are more likely to have a happy marriage. 

Research has found that the happiest couples who say that “God is at the center of our marriage” are twice as likely to report that they are very happy than others.  The happiest couples worship together, share key values, focus on serving their spouses instead of being served, look to God for power to be selfless, and trust God for the outcome. They don’t look to marriage for fulfillment, they find that in God. [v]


[i] https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/06/happily-ever-after/372573/

[ii] https://reformedperspective.ca/the-surprising-secrets-of-highly-happy-marriages/

[iii] https://reformedperspective.ca/the-surprising-secrets-of-highly-happy-marriages/

[iv] https://reformedperspective.ca/the-surprising-secrets-of-highly-happy-marriages/

[v] https://reformedperspective.ca/the-surprising-secrets-of-highly-happy-marriages/